I love my sisters. Strong and more than able to hold their own in this cold rough world. When I think on it I can not do nothing but smile. However, it hurts me to hear my sisters that use being "Independent" out of context. You should be able to pay your own bills. You made them. You should be able to buy your own materialistic things. You wear them.
But, do to us as men being so absent in our rolls as men, when you all run into a real man not only you have a hard time recognizing him as a man, you seem to be too strong and Independent to know when to be weak. And being strong is knowing when to be weak. I (CHAOS aka C4) at times will ask an opinon on an outfit knowing what my own opinion is just to let the person that I am with at that time feel like they picked out my clothes. I will confide in the person that I am with even if I am able to deal with an issue just to give them the since of me needing them emotionally. She is my equal. All that I am and yet all that I am not. She compliments me in every way and it is my job to let her shine dispite my abilities or lack there of. I know tht I am strong but I also know that with her and only with her that I am the strongest that I can ever be. So if Iam at my strongest and I do things to let her know that she are weaker than me by contstantly bringing her down just to lift myself up. This is what the government calls being counter productive.
So now ladies, not even showing you how this missguided state of "Independence" is biblically wrong however ask and I will, we as men messed up. We force you to play the roll of a father, bread winner, preacher, mentor, counselor, doctor, back bone and I want to say we see you but have we truly failed and now you are too strong to be weak. I love the fact that you can opperate on autopilate when fake mean have failed you so often, but when the tides have turned and GOD has shift destiney your way and broght your soulmate (a real Man) your way, "CHAOS aka C4" want to know from my strong, "Independent Woman":
Are you strong enough to be weak?
- Ask him to open up a jar when you can do it yourself
- Even though you dont need it because you know you all think a like, ask his opinion so he can feel you needed his help
- Tell him thank you for loving you when you know he couldn't if he wanted to
- In a crowd of people pull him aside just to say I love you
- Hold hime tight during an emotional part of a movie like you are about to cry, when in actuallity you know that he is... about to cry
So together we cry..
"Are you strong enough to be weak?"
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"CHAOS aka C4"
"Mind Elevation"
Wow. it sure is a small, small world. You are a great person. I regret that we could never be friends. I AM SORRY for the part that I played. I was young and naive then.
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